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Good Job!

Can you stand another song?! This one truly needs to go viral.

We certainly need to be saying “good job” to first responders, health care professionals, firefighters, teachers… but there are lots of people doing a “good job” when, as the song says, the job is defined as caring, listening, and connecting.

The song comes with a tissue alert and a suggestion that you consider creating a ritual of watching it every morning.

And that’ll help you remember that you matter and you may be someone’s hero. You matter.

There are probably a lot of people who should hear “Good Job” from you! Just telling them that may make you their hero. We matter to each other, now more than ever.

“When it feels like the end of the road
You don’t let go, you just press forward…
Don’t get too down…
Know that you matter…”

Giving Man

I had the distinct pleasure and honor of meeting Don Campbell several years ago while he was performing in Dover-Foxcroft at Center Theatre. While this song isn’t about him, it could be… He took the time to walk around town and meet people, made supporting veterans an important part of his visit and show, and shared from his heart. Listen to this and you’ll know that’s where the words and music came from. Being a “giving man” is not all that complicated.

This is a good year to remember that.

Don supports a number of Maine Charities. If you’d like to throw a few bucks in Don’s Virtual Tip Jar, it wouldn’t hurt!

Every Once in a While…

Have you got a minute for a story? Every once in a while, something happens that just has to be shared.

Unless you’re living under a rock, you know that Maine is now under an Executive Order that requires facemasks to be worn unless you are on your own property.

If you’ve recently attended a “live” class or workshop I’ve taught, you also know that I suffer from COPD and allergies. That’s not a complaint, it’s just a statement of fact to explain why I occasionally have trouble breathing and may cough–even if I’m not wearing a facemask. I don’t have COVID-19 but wearing a facemask causes me discomfort, reduces my oxygen absorption and makes teaching difficult.

During the second class I taught after the Executive Order was announced, one of my adult students (we’ll call her “D”) disappeared for a few moments. She returned from a quick trip to her vehicle with the explanation she had something for me but would need to assemble it. The smile she wore was both intriguing and telling.

Ultimately, D presented me with the face-covering pictured here together with an explanation that her employer was using them and they were also being widely used in restaurants and food prep areas.

It wasn’t long before I was smiling with her. “I can breathe!” I announced to the class. Several replied “And we can see your smile now!”

I no longer had to deal with my glasses fogging.

If there was a questionable side-affect it was that the shield reflected my voice and my hearing aids seemed to increase the volume of my voice. They and I both adjusted rather quickly.

I wanted to share the story because the student’s kindness deserves recognition.

I also need to confess that I must have been living under a rock because I wasn’t aware such a thing exists! That’s why I’m even willing to demonstrate that I have no future as a male model to share it with my colleagues or anyone who teaches. There’s a bracket that sits on my chin, keeping the shield properly spaced… the shield itself extends above my nose. I actually find myself forgetting I have it on! D pointed out that I could slip a straw up through the bracket and drink without removing it!

Of course you’ll need to clean it at the end of the day. That’s actually an advantage because it’s a whole lot easier than washing a cloth mask or “overusing” a disposable mask.

Since my blog posts end up on social media, I will note that this is not an invitation to an argument. If you don’t like the idea of the device, don’t use it. If you are tempted to attack me for using it, bear in mind, that I would likely qualify for a medical exemption from wearing a mask at all. So wearing this device is “going above” the CDC’s “recommendation.”

Every once in a while we might want to think about the word “tolerance.” It’s a pretty important concept if we intend to live, work, and learn together.

Every once in a while we might want to emulate D by demonstrating kindness and helping to solve someone else’s problem.